gstreamer-vaapi: Upgrade to 0.5.8

For the 0.10 variant:
- Drop wayland-compile patch merged upstream
- Add files which were missing in the tarball
- Disable Wayland support as it doesn't build

Signed-off-by: Ross Burton <ross.burton@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Darren Hart <dvhart@linux.intel.com>
(cherry picked from commit 67b7f6f3)